Wednesday, September 3, 2008

Whole Body Wisdom

In Life Coaching we realize the connection between the physical and the mental. I am equipped to assist you with the mindset, but for the physical side I highly recommend Jennifer Hennrich of Whole Body Wisdom.

"The journey towards health and healing begins where you are today. By cleansing and nourishing your body, you will inspire the change necessary to create a healthier, happier consciousness. “Health is wholeness and balance, an inner resilience that allows you to meet the demands of living without being overwhelmed. Health is a dynamic and temporary state of equilibrium destined to change, but the breakdowns need not be major.” I teach tools for finding the balance of healing gently and supportively through detoxification, nutrition and the mind, body, spirit connection."
Jennifer Hennrich

Tuesday, July 22, 2008

Where Are You Heading?

The following article was posted on LIBNET, the Colorado Library Listserv. It is geared to libraries, but the points given are applicable to any group and even individual.

If you are starting or have a business, even if it is sole-proprietorship, having a vision is essential to your success. How do you know what to do unless you know where you want to go? Create your path.

The same goes for the individual. Create a vision statement for your life. What is the most important job you have if it is not living your life? Give it the same respect and planning you put into your work. MP


Where Is Your Organization Heading?
by Rene Moquin, President of Dialogos Consulting


Have you reviewed your library’s mission and vision statement lately? Does it truly reflect where you are and where you are going? I often find confusion regarding the function of vision and mission statements and their relationship to one’s strategic planning process.


To clarify, strategic planning is taking what we know today plus lessons learned from the past and developing a plan to place the organization in a better competitive position for the future. If implemented correctly, a Plan will create higher levels of motivation, commitment and continuously fuel higher levels of achievement.


Visioning, on the other hand, is starting with a blank sheet of paper. It is about visualizing a future desired state, a picture of where and what we would like the organization to be in the future, without being constrained by such factors as funding or resources, and then working backward to develop an action plan to get us there. It is about imagination and discovery versus analysis and forecasts.


In recent years, many organizations have questioned whether they need a vision at all. Many leaders have pronounced themselves ill at ease with the “vision thing.” Any vision that is simply an extension of the CEO’s ego is dangerous. On the other hand, Hamel in his book, Competing for the Future, states “it is equally simplistic and dangerous to reject the very notion of foresight or vision because some organization leaders can’t distinguish between vanity and vision”.


The trick for any organization is to see the future before it arrives. In an effort to create vision, Hamel suggests that organizations must answer three critical questions: First, what new types of customer (client) benefit should we seek to provide in five, ten, or fifteen years? Second, what new competencies will we need to build or acquire to offer those benefits to customers (clients)? An third, how will we need to reconfigure the customer
(client) interface over the next several years?


I suggest that a vision statement should meet the following test:


* A vision statement is more than clichés, slogans and jargon

* A vision statement answers what we want to become

* A vision statement indicates where to concentrate our energies and
resources

* A vision statement is a bridge between the present and future

* A vision statement is the deepest expression of what the organization
wants to become

* A vision statement has emotional appeal

* A vision statement is powerful enough for members to want to take risks
and make painful changes

* A vision statement is “shared” by everyone

* A vision statement allows people to be connected together
synergistically


Are there inherent shortcomings to incorporating visioning into an organization’s strategic planning process? Certainly. The most common criticism or challenge is a perceived lack of tangible results. Visioning by nature is conceptual. It is important that visioning is not an end unto itself but an essential part of the strategic planning process. The point here is that this essential step is often overlooked. Incorporating visioning into the overall strategic planning process can be a transforming experience that permanently alters an organization’s view of the future- and of itself.


It is important that the creation of a vision statement includes strong participating by key stakeholders, is focused on customer and client requirements, and allows the organization to be tough on itself (question everything, be honest about our strengths, weaknesses, etc.). The interactive process encourages creativity and imagination and focuses on achieving results. An intended outcome is for the organization to create a well-crafted, meaningful statement, which defines a desires future state of the organization two to five years hence.


A strategic planning process must be uniquely tailored to the specific needs and goals of each organization. It often begins with an ear to the client’s board and staff, and can grow to include community surveys, focus groups, or individual interviews, all designed to learn bout how the organization is perceived by its critical stakeholders. A Planning Retreat may be the next step in order to get a jumpstart on the vision, mission and key goals. The entire process is “custom fit” to meet the needs of each individual client.
It is important to develop a relevant, achievable and measurable plan that positions them for their future. Why not jump on board?

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Rene Moquin is President of Dialogos Consulting and former CEO. He has worked with a number of associations and organizations in facilitating an interactive strategic planning process that captures and exploits the foresight that exists throughout organizations. Rene currently serves on the Estes Park Library Foundation. You can contact Rene at renemoquin@beyondbb.com.

Thursday, May 8, 2008

Leadership by Khandro Rinpoche (not just for Buddhists)

Click on the title of this post to go to a video of Khandro Rinpoche, a Tibetan Buddhist teacher, speaking on leadership. She refers to sangha, the term for a Buddhist community, but her words are general and anyone from any tradition can relate to it.

She focuses on friendliness to ourselves and others, genuine socializing, and working together outside of the normal administrative realm to build a stronger community/team.

"Currently the problems that we face today are not the problems of the people, what we face are the problems of the leaders." Jetsun Khandro Rinpoche

Recorded August 2007, during an audience to administrators after a teaching at the Berkeley Shambhala Center. In this video, Rinpoche responds to a question about how meditation center volunteers and administrators relate to each other. By permission of Khandro Rinpoche and the Berkely Shambhala Center.

Thursday, April 10, 2008

Compassionate Leadership

That’s Not What I Said! : Understanding Each Other

We’ve all experienced it. Five people go to the same meeting, yet come away with five different takes on what occurred. None of them are wrong, they just each have different ways of seeing things Their focuses are on different aspects of organization, yet they need to learn to communicate with all of them.
When everyone in an organization understands the different ways we view the world based on our personalities, communication becomes more efficient and worthwhile.

Topics include:
· The five basic archetypes and their focus
· What is your dominate archetype?
· Respecting and celebrating the differences
· How to communicate effectively
· Skillful ways to make the organization gel


Manage the Company, Lead the Team
The world is changing and management needs to change with it. Old models of management structure will just not work anymore. Rather than “managing” people why not lead them?
Compassion does not mean “wimpy” and keeping everyone happy. It means doing the right action. It may mean being very sharp to cut through, as in disciplinary action, or being open and listening, for conflict resolution. Yet all actions are done in a gentle and open manner creating a healthier balance for everyone.

You will receive tested methods that actually work and are sustainable for creating a more harmonious and productive workplace.

Topics include:
· Conflict Resolution
· Staff Inventory & Evaluation
· Creating Peer Leadership
· Body Language
· Compassionate Communication
· Meetings that Work


"Together We Are An Ocean" Creating the Confident Team
Everyone from the front office to the custodian sweeping the floor, from the techs to the volunteers, need to take ownership of the organization. Taking responsibility for their very important part in keeping the organization running smoothly creates a more harmonious team and a better place to work.

Topics Include:
· What is Peer Leadership?
· Are you in the Right Job?: Personal Inventories
· Conflict Resolution
· Body Language
· Compassionate Communication

*
Individually, we are one drop. Together, we are an ocean.” Ryunosuke Satoro

Wednesday, April 9, 2008

Life Coaching

-Do you often describe yourself as “being in a rut”?
-Can’t quite get the “oomph” to get that new project or workout routine started?
-Do you have a successful professional life but want to feel more fulfilled?
-Do you feel there is something you should be doing but you are not sure what it is?

Get a coach!

Together we will get to the heart of your life’s passion so you can live the authentic life you’ve always dreamed of.

Focusing on:

-Career
-Self-care
-Spirituality
-Individual Projects

Working With a Life Coach Allows You to:
Create a vision for your life.

Coaching fosters the realization of extraordinary results when you have a clear vision that is based on your values. We will work on clarifying your vision during our initial coaching sessions.

Get to know yourself in a new way.

Working with a coach is a powerful way to grow. Most clients hire a coach to accomplish several specific goals, and much of the time is spent working on these goals. Yet, with coaching, don’t be surprised if you discover new parts of yourself, or, if you find yourself adjusting your goals to match who you really are.

Expand your level of willingness.

Part of working with me as your coach is that it will ask a lot of you, more than you may have been willing to ask of yourself. I will ask you to experiment with fresh approaches and to be open to redesigning the parts of your life that are not serving you. This is all part of achieving your vision and living an integrated and fulfilled personal and work life. Here are some areas in which we may work together:
-Remove sources of stress in your life
-Redesign how you spend your time
-Create a vision and goals that are bigger than you’ve allowed yourself to have before
-Commit to self care
-Re-examine the assumptions and decisions you’ve made
-Experiment and try new things
-Get the support you need to handle any problem that is getting in the way of your fully realizing your potential.

Go confidently in the direction of your dreams. Live the life you’ve imagined! ~Thoreau


What is Life Coaching?

Life coaching is the practice of assisting clients to determine and achieve personal goals. We use a variety of methods, tailored to the client, to move through the process of setting and reaching goals. Coaching is not targeted at psychological illness, and coaches are not therapists.

Coaching entails working with people who already have a measure of “success” in their lives, but who want to bridge the gap between where they are and where they want to be in their profession and their personal life.

We bring out your own brilliance and resources so that you can achieve excellence and create purposeful, authentic lives.

Contact me to set up a FREE coaching session. melissa@authenticworldllc.com

Packet A:
-3-month minimum

-Four sessions per month and ‘buzz sessions’ as needed.

Packet B:
Project Packet

-1 month minimum
-Four sessions per month and ‘buzz sessions’ as needed.


Packet C:
I Know What I Want, I Just Need a Gentle Push

-no minimum
-one session per month and 'buzz sessions' as needed

All Sessions are 30-60 minutes by phone or in person.

Sliding fee schedule available.


Dynamic Libraries

DYNAMIC LIBRARIES

Authentic World LLC uses a holistic and sustainable organizational approach. Working with you to create a workable, long-term change in your library. Not just a cosmetic change or a one-time “fix,” but a truly organic plan that brings out the talent, creativity and brilliance of the organization to create a relevant and Dynamic Library.

Available workshops. Contact melissa@authenticworldllc.com for more detailed descriptions.



Library Merchandising : Creating the Dynamic Space

Patrons love a good mystery, but not when it is their library.

Whether you are designing a new building, remodeling or just want to jazz up your current space, merchandising is vital. The patron should be able to come in, immediately feel comfortable and able to get the lay of the land at first glance. Coupled with good customer service, merchandising can transform your library.

Using retail display techniques, public relations, and everyone’s natural creativity, we can create a retail model that works for everyone on your staff and takes very little time and effort. Create a relevant and functional library that works for both your patrons and your staff.

Topics include:


· Basic Merchandising Models
· Easy & Effective Display Techniques
· Creating a Merchandising Plan that Works
· Getting the Whole Library Involved!

I can hear you rolling your eyes! An Integral Approach to Customer Service

We have all been trained in basic customer service techniques, but there are many subtle behaviors that others see that we aren’t even conscious of doing. Going beyond the basics and creating a greater awareness of the may ways we communicate decreases misunderstandings and increases customer satisfaction.

Most customer service training is “reactive-based” whereas this workshop is more holistic, focusing on integral behaviors which are applicable in any situation.

Topics include:


· What is Professional?
· What is Customer Service?
· Staff Relations as Customer Service
· Listening Skills
· Body Language
· Conflict Resolution

That’s Not What I Said! : Understanding Each Other

We’ve all experienced it. Five people go to the same meeting, yet come away with five different takes on what occurred. None of them are wrong, they just each have different ways of seeing things Their focuses are on different aspects of organization, yet they need to learn to communicate with all of them.
When everyone in an organization understands the different ways we view the world based on our personalities, communication becomes more efficient and worthwhile.

Topics include:
· The five basic archetypes and their focus
· What is your dominate archetype?
· Respecting and celebrating the differences
· How to communicate effectively
· Skillful ways to make the organization gel


Manage the Library, Lead the Team
The world is changing and management needs to change with it. Old models of management structure will just not work anymore. Rather than “managing” people why not lead them?
Compassion does not mean “wimpy” and keeping everyone happy. It means doing the right action. It may mean being very sharp to cut through, as in disciplinary action, or being open and listening, for conflict resolution. Yet all actions are done in a gentle and open manner creating a healthier balance for everyone.
You will receive tested methods that actually work and are sustainable for creating a more harmonious and productive workplace.

Topics include:
· Conflict Resolution
· Staff Inventory & Evaluation
· Creating Peer Leadership
· Body Language
· Compassionate Communication
· Meetings that Work


"Together We Are An Ocean" Creating the Confident Team
Everyone from the front desk to the custodian sweeping the floor, from the cataloger to the volunteer shelver, needs to take ownership of the organization. Taking responsibility for their very important part in keeping the organization running smoothly creates a more harmonious team and a better place to work.

Topics Include:
· What is Peer Leadership?
· Are you in the Right Job?: Personal Inventories
· Conflict Resolution
· Body Language
· Compassionate Communication

*
Individually, we are one drop. Together, we are an ocean.” Ryunosuke Satoro


Personalized Workshops

Combine various elements of the previous workshops to fit your needs. Contact me at melissa@authenticworldllc.com and we can create the workshop you need.

These programs are available as workshops, all-day
seminars
or a longer consulting period.

Another option is a 1-hour staff meeting presentation focusing
on one particular topic.


Tuesday, March 11, 2008

You Had a Bad Day

Amazing how a song can be just hte thing to knock you out of your storyline.

As the title says, I was having a bad day. I wasn't throwing too big of a pity party, yet, but I was feeling like it was a bit overwhelming. I get in the car to run the numerous errands laid out before me. I rarely turn the radio on, but I was in my husband's car. One song ended as I backed out and started down the road. Before I could hit the off button this song came on the radio. Daniel Powter's "You Had a Bad Day." As I drove along listening to this jaunty song about someone having a bad day I started laughing. It almost sounded like a conversation between my husband and me when either of us are feeling down.

Things happen for a reason, I believe, and when you open yourself up to everything around you, the universe usually comes back with what you need at the moment.

Cause you had a bad day
You're taking one down
You sing a sad song just to turn it around
You say you don't know
You tell me don't lie
You work at a smile and you go for a ride
You had a bad day
You've seen what you like
And how does it feel for one more time
You had a bad day
You had a bad day

Thursday, February 21, 2008

Just "going through the motions" at work? A short exercise to reenergize.

For those of us who are fortunate enough to be working in our chosen fields, after a few years we often find ourselves just "going through the motions." Somehow we have forgotten why we started doing this in the first place! One of the by-products of that is we lose the mental connection to what we are physically doing.

Here is a simple exercise to get that mind-body connection back at work.

Take yourself back to that time when you first realized this was the path for you. What was happening for you at that time? Where did you see yourself going with it? What was exciting about it? Completely immerse yourself in that passion you felt. Remember that feeling--hold it, feel it, taste it, smell it. Where is the physical sensation when you feel it? Make a connection between the thought and that physical sensation. Do this regularly before you start your work day and as the day progresses and you find yourself 'disconnected,' use the thought to bring that physical sensation of connection and passion.




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Now playing: Jimmy Cliff - I Can See Clearly Now
via FoxyTunes